{"id":27304,"date":"2020-03-16T16:13:04","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T20:13:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mookseandgripes.com\/reviews\/?p=27304"},"modified":"2020-03-16T16:13:04","modified_gmt":"2020-03-16T20:13:04","slug":"kate-folk-out-there","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mookseandgripes.com\/reviews\/2020\/03\/16\/kate-folk-out-there\/","title":{"rendered":"Kate Folk: &#8220;Out There&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=&#8221;no&#8221; equal_height_columns=&#8221;no&#8221; menu_anchor=&#8221;&#8221; hide_on_mobile=&#8221;small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; id=&#8221;&#8221; background_color=&#8221;&#8221; background_image=&#8221;&#8221; background_position=&#8221;center center&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;no-repeat&#8221; fade=&#8221;no&#8221; background_parallax=&#8221;none&#8221; parallax_speed=&#8221;0.3&#8243; video_mp4=&#8221;&#8221; video_webm=&#8221;&#8221; video_ogv=&#8221;&#8221; 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boxed_radius=&#8221;&#8221; class=&#8221;&#8221; id=&#8221;&#8221; color=&#8221;#003366&#8243; text_color=&#8221;&#8221;]I[\/fusion_dropcap] hope this post finds you healthy and safe in spite of so much disruption and uncertainty going on. Some things will presumably carry on per usual, such as <em>The New Yorker<\/em> fiction. This week we get a story from Kate Folk, another writer I don&#8217;t know. Folk has published stories in Granta and McSweeney&#8217;s, among other places, but this is her first story in\u00a0<em>The New Yorker<\/em>, and I don&#8217;t see where she has a book published (if I&#8217;m wrong, please let me know!). I hope many of us have the chance to get to know this young author&#8217;s work.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Out There&#8221; is definitely for a generation younger than me. I have never used a dating app, and so I don&#8217;t know all of the nuances and risks involved. This story seems like one to get me caught up. Here&#8217;s how it begins:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">I was putting myself out there. On my return to San Francisco from a bleak Thanksgiving with my surviving relatives in Illinois, I downloaded Tinder, Bumble, and a few other apps I&#8217;d seen Instagram ads for. I resolved to pass judgment on several hundred men per day, and to make an effort to message the few I matched with.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>There are many reasons I&#8217;m glad I didn&#8217;t grow up with online dating apps, but one of the scary ones is the fake accounts used to collect personal information. Folk calls these &#8220;blots.&#8221; Her character, though, figures: &#8220;But what choice did I have? 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